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1. I hate to be hustled. It makes me crazy when I get caught in a scam and makes me leery of every sex worker I meet. I know the title is Hustler but I hate it. Let me tell you what I want you give me a price or refuse and maybe we can develop a working relationship. I feel the same way about my grocer, or taxi driver.

   Comment by Steve Banner — May 16, 2011 @ 1:21 pm

2. I know the title is Hustler, but I truly hate to be conned. I'm leery of anyone in the sex industry, employer or worker. It's all, somethin for nothin and get your kicks for free. I want to treat my sex worker, or employer the same way I treat my grocer, or carpenter. fair value and respect.

   Comment by Steve Banner — May 16, 2011 @ 1:26 pm

3. While I'm unable to put a headshot next to a comment about myself as a sex worker, I want to thank you for doing this. I've written about respect for clients in the past and think it is an important part of the sex workers rights movement. It keeps everyone safer and happier :)

   Comment by Ellie — May 17, 2011 @ 7:36 am

4. For several years I have been a regular customer of 2 sexworkers in the greater Los Angeles Area. I always treat them in a Fair and professional matter, I am generous with them, when I visit them in their incall I shower, shave, spray on colone, practice good oral hygene, and almost always take them giftss. that is probably why it is them that almost always call me and ask me to go see them!!

   Comment by Armando Quintana — May 19, 2011 @ 9:35 am

5. Steve: Thanks for your reverse tips, but I'm not looking for input from clients about what they want in a sex worker. Further, I've found that the type of men who get most uppity about sex workers "hustling" them are ones trying to talk people down on their prices or get freebies.

   Ellie : You're welcome. I understand not everyone's okay with face shots, but for this project, I want to emphasize our non-facelessness.

   Armando: Good hygiene and gifts are always appreciated. :)

   Comment by Furry Girl — May 19, 2011 @ 7:33 pm

6. 70 words? Your description of what you are looking for in the submission is 63 words long. Really 70 words? Did you mean 700?

   I'm happy to put something together and use a headshot.

   Will you add me to your blogroll please?

   Comment by Widow Centauri — June 1, 2011 @ 12:24 am

7. Widow: 70 words, like it says. I'm not looking to compile a book-length anthology, I'm looking for bite-sized tips. This is what 70 words looks like:

   "Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Maecenas ornare mattis ligula, vitae pulvinar nisl facilisis vitae. Mauris nulla dolor, condimentum eget convallis id, malesuada quis elit. Praesent sit amet dolor nulla. Sed eget enim ultricies lorem gravida volutpat nec ut odio. Mauris felis turpis, scelerisque in tristique eu, malesuada eget turpis. Ut consectetur hendrerit leo, at porta justo sagittis id. Nam sit amet mi ac odio accumsan sollicitudin in."

   It doesn't cover everything any client could possibly do to be respectful, but that's the point of having contributions from many different people.

   Comment by Furry Girl — June 1, 2011 @ 2:17 pm

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