by Furry Girl
02.26.10

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I recently got some feedback on my blog that read like an auto-generated essay against porn and sex work, hitting all the key arguments that I've heard a thousand times, just rearranged in a different order.
It got me thinking, hasn't anyone made a bingo card about this yet? Apparently not, so I made one, with my top 25 most irritating frequently addressed accusations. (Click here to get a larger version so that you can print it out and play along at home.)
[Edit: Miss Renegade Evolution made a sex work bingo card about a year ago, which I missed. Go see her version here.]
Furry Girl: a good time not yet had by all
My web sites
- Cocksexual.com: Strapons
- EroticRed.com: Menstruation
- FurryGirl.com: Unshaved
- TheSensualVegan.com: Store
- VegPorn.com: Herbivores
My incessant tweets
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Want personal advice on getting started in the industry, or just want to see my pussy?
Been around the block
My advice for new & potential sex workers
My advice for clients
- Don't haggle, don't expect services not promised, don't give us unwanted "business advice"
- Get your money's worth: give us feedback so we know what you want
My advice for friends, family, acquaintances, & allies of sex workers
- Don't act as though our life experiences are invalidated because we haven't read such-and-such feminist book
- Don't ask us questions about how to get into sex work because you imagine it's easy
- Don't be all awkward and creepy when you discover that we're a sex worker
- Don't talk to us as though we're spoiled brats who don't have real jobs
- Don't you dare lecture sex workers with how you, an outsider, think we ought to feel about our lives
- Never be afraid to speak up for what's right, even if it's socially untoward to do so
Browse by topic
- Activism
- Atheism / Religion
- Blogging
- Book Reviews
- Crab Mentality
- Drama
- Events & Happenings
- Feministisms
- Frequently Addressed Accusations
- Government & Law
- Images & Slogans
- Kink / BDSM
- Leisure of the Theory Class
- Love & Relationships
- Misogynist Women
- Money
- Nutters & Moralizers
- Personal
- Porn
- Privacy & Anonymity
- Psuedoscience
- Queer / Gender
- Quotes
- Seattle / WA Local
- Sex Toys & Products
- Sex Work
- Sluthood
- Technology
- Trafficking / "Rescue"
- Travel
Blogs: heavy on sexual politics & sex work
- $pread Magazine's Blog
- Amanda Brooks
- Belle de Jour
- Blog of Pro-Porn Activism
- Born Whore
- Bound, Not Gagged
- Dan Savage on SLOG
- Dylan Ryan
- Hos, Hookers, Call Girls & Rent Boys
- Jiz Lee
- Lux Nightmare [archive, 2006-07]
- Madison Young's Kinky Feminism
- Melissa Gira
- Mistress Matisse
- Our Porn, Ourselves
- Readjust Economies of Desire
- Renegade Evolution
- Sequoia Redd
- Serpent Libertine
- Sex in the Public Square
- Sex Work 101
- Sexerati
- Sexual Intelligence
- Tasty Trixie
- The Rumpus > Sex Section
- Tina Horn
- Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles
- Waking Vixen
- Whore Madonna
Videos and podcasts
- Red Light District Chicago
- Red Umbrella Diaries
- RenegadeCast
- Scarlot Harlot
- Sex Workers Present
- Whorecast [archive, 2005-06]
Resource sites
- Annie Sprinkle
- Prostitutes Education Network
- Sex Work Awareness
- Sex Workers Outreach Project
- The Internet Escort's Handbook

Love it! You have GOT to actually print these out and distribute them. We should offer sex worker bingo at the Desiree conference!
Comment by Serpent — February 27, 2010 @ 12:05 am
Beautiful! I'm so glad I stumbled into you. Definitely coming back to read more...
Comment by Modern Hooker — February 27, 2010 @ 1:20 am
Speaking of the whole 'performing our jobs out of altruism', I'm actually constantly and insanely happy about the fact that _my_ day job is one that I would spend time on even without a salary for it. I am also very aware of how relatively fragile this state of being is (academia is a VICIOUS field to build a career in).
But then again, this much will hold true for anyone who is sufficiently passionate about what they do - and I imagine certainly for more than a few sex workers.
Comment by Mikael Vejdemo Johansson — February 27, 2010 @ 2:17 am
This is brilliant! I love it! When confronted by antis who believe our lives are literally impossible as we experience them, you can either laugh or cry. Laugh is better. I owe you a tube of vegan lip balm, thanks.
Comment by Juline — February 27, 2010 @ 11:07 am
This is so goddamn good, I can't tell if I want to frame it, cover it in chocolate and eat it or just take it on the bus and sit next to a stranger and offer to play.
Either way, you've set a new high bar, fg.
-arvan
Comment by sexgenderbody — February 28, 2010 @ 12:55 am
Thanks for all the positive feedback, everyone!
Serpent: perhaps rather than bingo, the list could also make a good drinking game for the conference?
Comment by Furry Girl — February 28, 2010 @ 12:58 am
Excellent. Definitely going to share this. :-)
Comment by TsaphanBabe — February 28, 2010 @ 4:23 pm
Two suggestions:
1. Third square under "O" is missing the word "to" (... women *to* hate their bodies).
2. Add a url to the image so you get credit when it is reproduced and plastered all over.
Comment by Angela J — March 1, 2010 @ 11:40 am
There already is a sex work bingo card! But it's good to see another version too.
Comment by Nine — March 1, 2010 @ 7:01 pm
Angela: Thanks for the typo alert, I'll go an correct that. Good point about adding a little URL tag- I stuck my name in the title for that reason, but a URL doesn't hurt.
Thanks, Nine! if anyone else had made a bingo card, it had to of been Ren.
Comment by Furry Girl — March 1, 2010 @ 7:09 pm
genius!! one of the best posts I've ever read. period.
Comment by Harold M. Clemens — March 1, 2010 @ 9:26 pm
Love it! I'm sooo tired of the "brainwashed by the patriarchy" crap. And yes, sure, there are people [of all sexes] who are exploited in sex work, but there are people who are exploited by sweatshops, by sexual harassment, by unsafe work conditions, etc. The anti-porn/anti-sex work worriers seem a lot less concerned with that.
Comment by DominEditrix — March 8, 2010 @ 2:11 pm
This is the fucking greatest! I just linked to it on my blog.
Comment by Kat — March 9, 2010 @ 1:25 pm
Perfect, FG. Absolutely freakin' PERFECT.
Permission to borrow and copy to my site??
Anthony
Comment by Anthony Kennerson — April 7, 2010 @ 6:31 pm
Yes, anyone's welcome to use it, so long as I'm credited.
Comment by Furry Girl — April 8, 2010 @ 1:15 am
I like your bingo card better.
Comment by lovesickrobot — June 9, 2010 @ 5:25 am
I teach a class on gender, and we printed these out and played bingo when we watched documentaries and listened to taped talks on porn/sex work...the first person to plausibly bingo got a candy bar. It took REMARKABLY little time. I mean, we filled up the whole card by the end of class...
Thanks for making this!
Comment by Neil Dryden — July 12, 2010 @ 5:20 am
Thanks, Neil! That's cool if something I wrote was used in a class.
Comment by Furry Girl — July 12, 2010 @ 2:49 pm
Comment by Trackbacks — September 3, 2010 @ 3:48 am