by Furry Girl
03.11.10
"I'm always amazed that people have the courage to rear children, given that once you have them, anything people don't like about your offspring's sexuality becomes your fault. I heard a new twist on this lately: Foot and leg fetishes stem from men sitting on the floor as infants, tugging futilely at the skirts of their (obviously) distant, unloving mother. It's odd how no one pathologizes guys for liking boobs."
- Mistress Matisse, in Were Kinky People Abused as Children?, on thestranger.com
Furry Girl: a good time not yet had by all
My web sites
- Cocksexual.com: Strapons
- EroticRed.com: Menstruation
- FurryGirl.com: Unshaved
- TheSensualVegan.com: Store
- VegPorn.com: Herbivores
My incessant tweets
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Want personal advice on getting started in the industry, or just want to see my pussy?
Been around the block
My advice for new & potential sex workers
My advice for clients
- Don't haggle, don't expect services not promised, don't give us unwanted "business advice"
- Get your money's worth: give us feedback so we know what you want
My advice for friends, family, acquaintances, & allies of sex workers
- Don't act as though our life experiences are invalidated because we haven't read such-and-such feminist book
- Don't ask us questions about how to get into sex work because you imagine it's easy
- Don't be all awkward and creepy when you discover that we're a sex worker
- Don't talk to us as though we're spoiled brats who don't have real jobs
- Don't you dare lecture sex workers with how you, an outsider, think we ought to feel about our lives
- Never be afraid to speak up for what's right, even if it's socially untoward to do so
Browse by topic
- Activism
- Atheism / Religion
- Blogging
- Book Reviews
- Crab Mentality
- Drama
- Events & Happenings
- Feministisms
- Frequently Addressed Accusations
- Government & Law
- Images & Slogans
- Kink / BDSM
- Leisure of the Theory Class
- Love & Relationships
- Misogynist Women
- Money
- Nutters & Moralizers
- Personal
- Porn
- Privacy & Anonymity
- Psuedoscience
- Queer / Gender
- Quotes
- Seattle / WA Local
- Sex Toys & Products
- Sex Work
- Sluthood
- Technology
- Trafficking / "Rescue"
- Travel
Blogs: heavy on sexual politics & sex work
- $pread Magazine's Blog
- Amanda Brooks
- Belle de Jour
- Blog of Pro-Porn Activism
- Born Whore
- Bound, Not Gagged
- Dan Savage on SLOG
- Dylan Ryan
- Hos, Hookers, Call Girls & Rent Boys
- Jiz Lee
- Lux Nightmare [archive, 2006-07]
- Madison Young's Kinky Feminism
- Melissa Gira
- Mistress Matisse
- Our Porn, Ourselves
- Readjust Economies of Desire
- Renegade Evolution
- Sequoia Redd
- Serpent Libertine
- Sex in the Public Square
- Sex Work 101
- Sexerati
- Sexual Intelligence
- Tasty Trixie
- The Rumpus > Sex Section
- Tina Horn
- Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles
- Waking Vixen
- Whore Madonna
Videos and podcasts
- Red Light District Chicago
- Red Umbrella Diaries
- RenegadeCast
- Scarlot Harlot
- Sex Workers Present
- Whorecast [archive, 2005-06]
Resource sites
- Annie Sprinkle
- Prostitutes Education Network
- Sex Work Awareness
- Sex Workers Outreach Project
- The Internet Escort's Handbook
As eye roll-inducing as it might be, it's nice to take a break from the usual "daddy issues", "broken home", "getting back at parents" take on sexuality.
Comment by Sadie — March 11, 2010 @ 4:10 am