by Furry Girl
08.03.09
"Well, fuck you. Fuck you, who think feminism began with Germaine Greer and ended with Candace Bushnell. Fuck you, who think kissing a girl while tiddly is real transgression. Fuck you, who ridicule India Knight for dieting then go on television offering up your tits on a plate. Fuck you, for not looking in the mirror when you wonder why there is no solidarity among women. Fuck you, heteronormative journocunts judging who is a proper feminist and who is not while contentedly popping sprogs here, there and everywhere in north London. Fuck you, and your little dog too. You damn right I'm no feminist, cos all feminists give a monkey's for these days is how to claim breast pumps as tax exempt and where to find the best au pairs."
-- Belle de Jour, in her December 13, 2007 entry on belledejour-uk.blogspot.com
Furry Girl: a good time not yet had by all
My web sites
- Cocksexual.com: Strapons
- EroticRed.com: Menstruation
- FurryGirl.com: Unshaved
- TheSensualVegan.com: Store
- VegPorn.com: Herbivores
My incessant tweets
Enjoy my writing? I enjoy presents!
Want personal advice on getting started in the industry, or just want to see my pussy?
Been around the block
My advice for new & potential sex workers
My advice for clients
- Don't haggle, don't expect services not promised, don't give us unwanted "business advice"
- Get your money's worth: give us feedback so we know what you want
My advice for friends, family, acquaintances, & allies of sex workers
- Don't act as though our life experiences are invalidated because we haven't read such-and-such feminist book
- Don't ask us questions about how to get into sex work because you imagine it's easy
- Don't be all awkward and creepy when you discover that we're a sex worker
- Don't talk to us as though we're spoiled brats who don't have real jobs
- Don't you dare lecture sex workers with how you, an outsider, think we ought to feel about our lives
- Never be afraid to speak up for what's right, even if it's socially untoward to do so
Browse by topic
- Activism
- Atheism / Religion
- Blogging
- Book Reviews
- Crab Mentality
- Drama
- Events & Happenings
- Feministisms
- Frequently Addressed Accusations
- Government & Law
- Images & Slogans
- Kink / BDSM
- Leisure of the Theory Class
- Love & Relationships
- Misogynist Women
- Money
- Nutters & Moralizers
- Personal
- Porn
- Privacy & Anonymity
- Psuedoscience
- Queer / Gender
- Quotes
- Seattle / WA Local
- Sex Toys & Products
- Sex Work
- Sluthood
- Technology
- Trafficking / "Rescue"
- Travel
Blogs: heavy on sexual politics & sex work
- $pread Magazine's Blog
- Amanda Brooks
- Belle de Jour
- Blog of Pro-Porn Activism
- Born Whore
- Bound, Not Gagged
- Dan Savage on SLOG
- Dylan Ryan
- Hos, Hookers, Call Girls & Rent Boys
- Jiz Lee
- Lux Nightmare [archive, 2006-07]
- Madison Young's Kinky Feminism
- Melissa Gira
- Mistress Matisse
- Our Porn, Ourselves
- Readjust Economies of Desire
- Renegade Evolution
- Sequoia Redd
- Serpent Libertine
- Sex in the Public Square
- Sex Work 101
- Sexerati
- Sexual Intelligence
- Tasty Trixie
- The Rumpus > Sex Section
- Tina Horn
- Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles
- Waking Vixen
- Whore Madonna
Videos and podcasts
- Red Light District Chicago
- Red Umbrella Diaries
- RenegadeCast
- Scarlot Harlot
- Sex Workers Present
- Whorecast [archive, 2005-06]
Resource sites
- Annie Sprinkle
- Prostitutes Education Network
- Sex Work Awareness
- Sex Workers Outreach Project
- The Internet Escort's Handbook
Thanks for this. Sometimes, people need to yell in order to be heard over the drivel of the unthinking or the unaware. I hadn't seen this writer before, but I'm following her now.
-arvan
Comment by sexgenderbody — August 3, 2009 @ 12:36 pm
I don't know any feminists who look for au pairs or "pop sprogs" actually. But I went to school with at least three of your VegPorn models so maybe I'm from a special place where feminism means something different that what it means in London.
Comment by lovesickrobot — June 8, 2010 @ 6:35 pm