by Furry Girl
11.12.09

My trip to New York City was a whirlwind of amazing, and I've barely had time to wash my clothes and read my email before I'm back to the airport tomorrow- although, this time, for a family visit.
I knew I was going to visit New York this fall to shoot for Cocksexual.com, and the universe was especially kind in putting together a great week of pervert events so I could have fun in the evenings, too. Alongside a full dance card of taking pictures of cocks, there was also a sex-positive drinkup, the Sex Worker Literati reading series, the 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar release party, and Audacia Ray's second screening of her Pay As You Go collection of shorts. (Thank you to the organizers of these events!)
I was able to shoot 8 new models for the site, from cute boner-filled posing to an amazing double-penetration scene. (This was my first time shooting a DP, and I found it challenging to know what to focus on when there's so much hotness happening all at once. I love meeting new challenges!) The cheapie light kit has been great to work with- it packs down small enough that I can fit everything in a large backpack. In spite of some hurdles like missed trains, lost models, and the A and C subways not operating, everything still ended up working out, and 23 gigs of great porn was shot.
I feel as though I was dragged quickly through a massive scrumptious buffet, and barely had a chance to stick my fork in but a few trays of food as I passed. I met and caught up with many great sexual intellectuals, but it was all so short. Ten minutes of conversation here, a late-night dinner there, a quick hug and "nice to see you!" shouted in a crowded bar in the middle, and I have found myself back at home, wondering what happened to me. As a bit of a recluse, that level of constant social interactions dazzles me, and I wonder if that's actually just what every week is like for normal people- the ones who don't work at home, in fleece pants, cat on their lap, with podcasts to keep them apprised of the outside world.
I've officially declared February 1st to be the launch date of Cocksexual.com, so that's when you'll get to see all the great stuff I've been doing.
As always, I am seeking models, but right now, I am most interested in finding cisgender (non-trans) men to work with in the Bay Area or Seattle. If you are a cisguy, partnered to one, or know one who might be interested in being pegged on camera, check out my casting page.
A parting shot:

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What a great summary - and what great pics!!! Skyscrapers are SO phallic, very John Waters. I love your life - and I know from following you on Twitter that you love it, too!
Comment by The Beautiful Kind — November 13, 2009 @ 4:43 am
A sex blogger calender? This sounds incredible.
Comment by Lorelei — December 16, 2009 @ 12:30 am